You can be hopeful without ignoring evidence.
Overthinking is not always a search for more information; sometimes it is a search for a more comfortable answer.
Where this shows up
It can look like collecting more opinions after the pattern is already clear.
That is usually the moment worth noticing. The point is not to judge yourself for the reaction. The point is to recognize what the reaction is asking you to see.
Try this today
Set a stopping point for analysis and decide what action is possible with what you already know.
A question worth sitting with
What would you do if you trusted the pattern more than the exception?
You do not need an immediate answer. A good question can stay useful long after the first reaction passes.
Take this with you
The goal is not the perfect response. It is a response that reflects what you know now.